Ive learned a lot from past relationships, friends(online and offline) relationships and just from everywhere. This also applies to getting hit on by guys!!

If a guy hits on you on the streets, that is disrespectful. Any sensible guy wouldn’t hit on just anyone driving/walking. Only classless women would actually pay attention to men when they do that.

If a guy stands you up, never again. There are far too many communication devices these days for him to have any kind of excuse for committing such an unpardonable offense.

If you give a guy your number and he calls you anytime before 10am, dont pick up the phone and personally, i would never talk to the guy again. That implicates desperation and why is he desperate?

This is from someone’s standpoint and i agree: "I get very suspecious of anyone under 30 claiming to make 300K a year, has luxury cars, expensive electronics, and expensive property." yes, i would be suspicious and would need proff to show how he made the money.

If a man keeps bringing stuff he wants you to do for him either out of bed or in it and you have told him you’re not comfortable with doing it, get one leg out the door.

if you made a mistake of sleeping with a guy, get over it however you want to and move on It’s nothing to beat yourself over the head with. Learn from your mistakes.

Dont settle for less than you’re worth or you deserve.

If all a guy talks about is your body part (boobs, butt, back, etc), he’s not your soulmate dont be f*cking stupid. he’s just after your body. If you’ve only just met the dude, he shouldn’t be talking about anything more personal than your eyes or in general terms about how pretty you are

DO NOT date your ex’s best friends, brothers and whatnot except if you dont mind being passed around.

Follow your instincts. A woman’s intuition is rarely wrong.

if a guy’s friends or family make jokes or say stupid things about you and he doesnt come to your rescure by putting a stop to it, you might want to bring out your luggage to start packing.

Except if you just want to have fun or want a fuck buddy, dont sleep with a guy if you think you dont know enough about him. If you’re skeptical, wait. If he cant wait till you’re ready, he’s not worth it.

If you’re just dating, in a relationship with someone, i wouldnt advise you to put your ALL into the relationship or open up as much as you would if you married to them. You dont have a ring on your finger so you dont owe them anything.

Snooping….if you think there’s a reason to snoop, go ahead and ask the guy. If you think he’s lying (woman’s intuition???), bring out the spy kit and get to work.

If you feel like you have to have sex with someone to keep them or their attention, pause and really examine who and what that person means to you.

MEN don’t play games. Insecure little boys who need material possessions to cloak their inadequacies do. How can you tell the difference? Time. Time is the only way to divide the men from the boys, and its not foolproof.

You can’t fcuk a man into loving you. Believe me, if you could almost every woman in America would have a harem of men by now. This is an easy mistake to make. Women tend to invest sex with emotionalism that many men don’t feel. Always remember, no matter how good the coochie is, there’s somebody down the street with better coochie. Men don’t fall in love with our vaginas. They fall in love with our virtue.

I am honestly not trying to slam anyone here but I am beyond tired of hearing about gullible women getting mesmerized by a dude behind the wheel of a car. Does anyone realize how easy it is to drive a "nice" car? It takes the least amount of income and credit to "secure" the keys to a vehicle that’ll make most people double take. Driving a nice car is not an accomplishment. Being able to pay for it, legally, without jeopardizing your home and your future IS.

A man who is interested will call you regularly and ask you out well in advance of the date. Again, he respects you and your time and will behave accordingly. No booty calls. Any man trying to come by your place late at night has already been out with his real girlfriend and is just trying to get some from you.

Dating really isn’t as complicated as we make it. Men are actually fairly simple creatures—we’re the complex ones A man who wants you will act like he wants you. No games, no confusion. Why? Because he’s afraid that if he doesn’t act right some other guy will come along and steal you away. (Remember, I’m talking about MEN here, not little boys.)


Disclaimer:

Im not married and have never been in a succesful relationship so please dont make this your relationship/dating bible. :D