Sometimes its funny and sometimes its amazing the way people throw around this word. Ok, im sure everyone knows there’s a difference between loving someone and being in love with them. Personally, i think it’s impossible to be in love or have been in love with more than 1 person. Its just impossible. "aww…i remember the 1st time i was in love.." umm no….you cant be in love more than once.

Also, maybe im just being careful or whatnot but im actually suspicious of guys that say this word quickly. Everytime a guy tells me this….i start thinking real fast. im like "ok…he did say he is in love with me. What does he want from me. What a liar. He barely knows me. I KNOW i dont love him. WHat should i say?"

"OK"<---that's always my answer!! and immediately, my mind is out of the relationship and im basically living the single life again. Basically, i will be breaking up with him very very soon. I just think people take that phrase ver lightly and that is not what i want. You've known me for 3 months, you cant be in love with me. Yes, you can love me but err...im still suspicious. My friends say i need to be more daring....umm....telling everyone i date that im in love with them is not what i need to do to be daring. I dunno...ive kind of given up on it. When people talk about it, i just nod and smile. LOL. I dont think there should be talk about REAL emotions until after 6 months (FOR ME). Im sure everyone has their own time frames. I think that is usually when i start (un)-falling for a guy i.e., lose interest so i'd rather wait until then before opening up.

Maybe i’ll never fall in love. That would definitely make my life easier.